Basically the title. I’ve known my wife since I was sixteen. I realise through reading this sub that I’ve been groomed. She moved me all the way across the country.

We live on the eastern side of the US. I work in an office making great pay. She is a trust fund kid, so she obviously makes more than me.

Our marriage has been horrible since we walked out of the church. She had my location on at all times and would question me daily.

When I saw that she had been sending lewd messages to men and women online. I would ask her about it and she would tell me that I was seeing things.

It all came to a head three days ago. I questioned my wife about the messages and this time I continued to press her and this time I got her phone.

I didn’t need to read much. There were pictures and messages about them having sex. I told that I had seen the messages and she snapped.

She picked up our lamp and hit me in the face. The glass is thick so it didn’t break. I tried to get up and she hit me again, this time right in my groin.

I stayed down because if I had gotten up, I might have ended up writing this story behind bars. I laid there while my wife gathered some things and took off.

I’ve taken PTO these last two days and I’ve just been reflecting. Should I have taken her phone? Did I misinterpret the messages? Can I fix this? Is it over?