The thing is that every guy is different in what they like most, and the timing and pace of what they prefer. So let him know you want him to let you know (verbal, non-verbal, showing) when you are doing things he does and doesn’t like (the “does” will likely be covered with moans and changes in breathing).

 Among the things you can try:

 Dry penis and hand: touch the penis, surround the shaft with your fingertips and lightly run them up and down the shaft; hold the penis like you would a carrot, just behind the head and just tight enough that the skin slides with your hand, slide your hand up and down over the head (a “hand job”).

Do the above with a lubricant — some hand lotions work, or there are sexual lubricants that are better (water based, they won’t degrade a condom if you get to sex later).

Play with his balls however you can think to; do be careful not to squeeze too hard, but the balls in the sac and the sensitivity of the skin can lead to a lot of fun.

Use your mouth on his penis and balls (a “blow job”). Take the head of the penis into your mouth, use your saliva to get it wet. Use your tongue on the head and shaft. Move up and down on the shaft taking as much into your mouth as you can. Use your hand to stroke his wet shaft while your mouth works on the head or his balls.

 A couple things for you to know:

 He’s likely to cum (ejaculate). This will make him very happy, and may startle you until you learn the signs it is coming. It’s not dangerous. You can’t get pregnant if the cum is in your mouth (and face), only if it gets to your vagina. Some women love the taste of semen, and some don’t.

He is very likely going to want to have sex, too. It’s best if you discuss your boundaries if that’s not something you want to do. If it is something you want to do, or in case you might change your mind, have a condom available and use it. Yes, you can get pregnant the first time!