I’m so fed up. Don’t fuck men with anti-choice/pro-life views or who vote for anti-choice/pro-life politics. Unless you agree with them, but this post isn’t for you. This applies to any of my fellow ladies (including trans) who are pro-choice and choose to be sexually active.
First, you really should be sleeping with people who align with your views, so in the off chance you find yourself in an unexpected position, there’s no surprises.
Second, by their own admission, they think sex should only be for procreating. So they shouldn’t be looking for, or enjoying, casual hook ups or recreational sex anyway. Especially when they shift the responsibilities, consequences, and shame onto the women while they reap the benefits.
Thirdly, maybe when they notice how batshit insane their theoretical arguments are in real-life practice, they’ll change their opinions and perhaps their voting patterns.
Fourthly, it’s looking real good that access to abortion AND affordable birth control might be taken away from us (Americans) soon. If you’re gonna be sleeping with any man, make sure it’s with a man who didn’t make that choice so much more riskier for you and your fellow ladies.
They don’t want women sleeping around? Fine. Don’t sleep with **them!**
ETA: What’s worse? Living in an oppressive society that wants women to have no control over their own bodies, or asking someone what their voting habits are before sleeping with them? Now is the time more than ever to stand up for yourself and your sisters and ask a simple question. Don’t let them take advantage of your politeness.
And some *will* lie, but you know what? I’d rather have them lie and hide than have them feel safe enough to spread their propaganda and view to anyone else. (That’s how we got the radicalized alt-right.) So many men already lie to get their dicks wet, and you’re gonna let that stop you from not even *trying* to stand up for reproductive rights? Anti-choice men don’t deserve your pussy.
And yes, a lot of religious, anti-choice men who think women shouldn’t have sex unless they want a child hold a double standard for themselves and go out and have casual, pre-marital sex anyway. My post above was simply stating the double standard and that they take advantage of the situation yet still want to remove women’s autonomy anyway. Don’t feel bad for them, this is what they say they want.