Let me start by saying not all porn is realistic, but the thing people say like “you shouldnt watch porn, its not how real life goes” is outdated, unless youre watching brazzers, or a fucking reality tv show style porn, “homemade” or whatever, is entirely realistic enough to base and understand of what “real” sex, can be like, the implications of extremely rough porn videos are said to make people think thats how real sex is, i personally think theres a huge difference between “making love” and “fucking” but people imply that no one, likes rough sex in the real world, and its setting unhealthy expectations, in some aspects it is, for women and men, majority of women wont want to be choked, or have ejaculate on their face, but some women, do! And i think that porn actually helps people figure out what they are into sexually without hurting anyone, it sets unrealistic expectations for women also, not every man is gonna last 30mins, not every man will have a 10 inch tree trunk, and no every man is gonna immediately take charge and know what to do! I dont even know where im going with this rant, but i do feel that porn CAN realistic.